Be the cure, don’t look outside yourself for it

Are you not happy with your life? Only you can change your circumstances.

Think about what options you have at your disposal to change things.

In the title above, we’re not talking a bout a ‘cure’ for a sickness; we’re talking about a cure of what is making you unhappy… look inside yourself to find it.

Don't point at others who you don't actually control. Don't allow yourself to believe your happiness is dependant on some thing: car, computer, jewelry,dvd player, or anything else.

You are an awsome person who knows how to be happy. You know happiness is elusive, but having it isn't dependent upon having things.

Many, many happy people have very litle.

Thinking of Suicide? Give Yourself Time - Find someone to Talk to Now

Doing something so final will take away the chance for you to experience the good things life has to offer. Believe me, there are good things, and if you give yourself time, you will experience the best of them.


Seek help!


You’ll have to choose someone to talk to. Choose that person carefully.

I bet you already have someone in mind, don’t you? When you start talking to that person, be honest. You absolutely have to let that person know what you are feeling, what you are going through, and what you are considering as a solution.


Hopefully the person you choose is a good listener. You can start your conversation by saying, “I really need someone to talk to. A friend.” Then you can go to a quiet, private place and let it all out.


I am worried about you. I want you to feel love in your life. If you can’t find anyone to talk to, you can use my comment form, leave your e-mail, and I’ll listen (via email).


Whatever you tell me will remain in my confidence.


If you are a gay teen and thinking of suicide, I don’t discriminate. I’ll do what I can to help you as well.


So, give yourself time by finding someone to talk to.

Feel Unloved by your Loved ones? There is Hope!

Maybe the people who are supposed to love you the most are the ones who treat you the worst. If this describes you in your family, there is hope.


If you listen when I say you are a good and kind person; and if you know there is someone out there who loves you no matter what; you can get through these current hard times.


God loves you. He sent his son to bear all our sins. If god would sacrifice his only son for you and I, don’t you think He loves you?


Oh, the world will try to convince you He isn’t real, but He IS real.


You can le5 God’s light shine through you! Don’t let the world smother your light. If you give up living, that’s just what you’ll be doing.


You are too special to let the world turn out your light; let it shine.

Your Courage will get you Through

Do you have an unhealthy addiction? Is your life fallen apart?


If so, you have the power to change your it! You have to realize this, but before you can even use this knowledge you’ve got to be honest with yourself.


Change won’t be easy. Leaving a destructive lifestyle always involves some pain. This is where courage comes in handy. Courage will enable you to do what’s best, despite being painful.


And, you have courage! You are reading this wondering if you have it. Simply admitting you need to change takes courage.


So you see, you can do change your life around. You can realize it won’t be easy; it’ll be hard, in fact. But you can overcome and find happiness again.

Faith and Trust: Different Sides of the Same Coin

Trust, and faith are different sides of the same coin.


Sometimes, relationships don’t seem real. Sometimes there is too much fighting because each person is afraid of what the other might do.


If this fear is not confronted by him/herself, real dangers can result. Fights can escalate, and people can get hurt; or worse.


So, we have to learn how to trust. You have to have faith (know without proof) before we can trust. By the same token, you have to trust in order to put faith in practice.


To have faith and trust, we must loosen the grip on our fears, while being sensitive to the fears our significant others may be feeling.