Have you ever asked, "How do I overcome rejection"? Keep reading and find out what I did.
After experiencing rejection by a woman, I wrote poetry that expressed my feelings. Here are the first few lines:
"This is for some of the women I've known,
vain, self-righteous, pompous beyond reproach.
While looking at me, eyes on another
doesn't think I can see what's happening
Think I'm blind, think I'm dumb
think I'm blind to what they've become..."
This is part of a poem I wrote expressing my anger. Writing this (and other poetry) really helped me get through a difficult time in my life, and I think it (or another creative activity) could help you.
Now, looking back, whenever I reread them, I'm reminded of lessons learned and obstacles overcome.
You and I know you have a lot of love within you and it keeps getting damaged. It may be that you want to express the love you'd like to share, but can't. Maybe you have a mom or dad who won't accept you, and it hurts. Maybe you are being bullied in school, or by neighborhood kids, and you feel totally overwhelmed.
Whatever your feelings are in your situation, they can be expressed with your creativity. Being creative with writing, painting, music, poetry or other activities will keep your mind and hands active.
As time goes bye, you'll find (as I had) that your creations will serve as reminders of obstacles you had overcome. Why do I think this is important?
It's been said, "Each time you overcome obstacles, you gain the needed courage to conquer new ones." If this is true, think of the courage your creative expressions will give you to meet new challenges.
Don't fit in? Get bullied and pushed around? Is there so much pain in your life that you think about hurting or killing yourself? If so, DON'T DO IT!!! Posts here can give you the strength, courage, wisdom, and hope that is necessary to overcome your difficult times. I want you to know I have been in a situation like yours, so I care. You are going through a lot right now, but you don't have to go it alone. Giving up is not an option.
Hope
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Overcome Rejection by Creatively Expressing your Feelings
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